Wednesday, September 26, 2007

For hire: Masseur for massage and more!

Some 10 or so years ago, my family was desperate for a masseur or a male masahista. I remembered seeing a few ads on Buy and Sell for a masahista. This was how we met our former visually challenged masahista Ferdie. When Ferdie became busy with his group, he stopped visiting us. Because of my family's dire need to find another masahista, I browsed through the ads again. I saw a whole bunch of ads saying the masseur is handsome, macho, mestizo, etc. I thought to myself, why would these men mention their looks when all they need to mention is the quality of the masahe or massage that they could give. I expected to see something like: Strong, certified masseur, knows reflexology, swedish and thai. I found 1 ad in 30 that had this kind of spiel kaso taga south naman.

Around 1999 0r 2000, I had come across a chatter whose nick mentioned that he's a masseur. He initiated a conversation with me. Being the curious cat that I am, syempre I asked a lot of questions till he eventually gave me his landline number so we could just continue the conversation over the phone.

Let's call this guy RC. He was respectful and seemed educated. He spoke good English and was a good conversationalist. To some women he probably sounded macho or sexy but I didn't like his voice, it came across as "modulated". RC said that his service costs P1,000. Huwaaat?! I told him his price is steep for a friggin' massage. So he mentioned is qualifications to justify is price:

1. He is tall - as if his height would make a difference.

2. He is tisoy - ahh... ok...

3. He is smart and speaks well - I guess he would need talk about the economic situation of the Philippines while massaging his client.

4. He's well hung - Huh?

5. He gives great oral sex - Whoaaaaaaa!!

His list of qualifications floored me. I asked him if he's a man-whore, he said he isn't. He said really gives good massages and cunnilingus would just be an option.

To be continued!

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Tuesday, September 25, 2007

Bad sleeping 'doubles heart risk'

I saw this news bit on BBC News. I says there that people who have too much or too little or disrupted sleep are linked a to doubled risk of a fatal cardiovascular disease.

Hmmm... No wonder my health has gotten worse lately.

The news article said:

Researcher Professor Francesco Cappuccio said: "Fewer hours sleep and greater levels of sleep disturbance have become widespread in industrialised societies.

"This change, largely the result of sleep curtailment to create more time for leisure and shift-work, has meant that reports of fatigue, tiredness and excessive daytime sleepiness are more common than a few decades ago.

"Sleep represents the daily process of physiological restitution and recovery, and lack of sleep has far-reaching effects."

Curiously, the researchers also found that those individuals who increased their sleep to eight hours or more a night were more than twice as likely to die during the period of the study as those who had not changed their habit.

Professor Cappuccio said lack of sleep had been linked to an increased risk of weight gain, high blood pressure and type 2 diabetes.

However, he said the link between too much sleep and poor health was less clear, although he suggested that staying in bed for prolonged periods could be a sign of depression, or, in some cases, cancer-related fatigue.

"Our findings indicate that consistently sleeping around seven hours per night is optimal for health and a sustained reduction may predispose to ill-health."

This news article is interesting to me because of what I have gone through lately and still going through somehow. I knew that my blood pressure problem is related to my sleep problem. I also had a feeling that my weight gain is due to stress, which is also affecting my sleep.

People in the call center industry should be strongly aware of this. There are certain centers that change schedules as often as every week. They should re-consider fixing schedules. These centers will someday be in serious trouble if they don't.

Saturday, September 22, 2007


I am so stressed and confused that I have nodules in/around my neck that would not go away! I have had this sore throat that bothers me on and off.

Ayaw ko na mag call center. I would rather be a janitress and clean an entire building right now. It's not that working for a call center is bad or not good enough for me, it's just that I would rather do manual labor right now and not use my brain anymore, or what's left of it. Hehehe.


Saturday, September 15, 2007


It rained quite hard and for a long time very early this morning, more like dawn. 3 hours non stop?

Heaven must have been crying with someone out there, hard and long, non stop mouring.

Tears are supposed to show sadness or grief. Too much rain can be a source of grief or sorrow. But then tears, just like rain, can also be for cleansing and healing.

May the tears there were shed be a source of cleansing and healing.

"Cry if you have to and let the tears wash away the bitterness that you feel. Look back and smile for somewhere in the past, love has found a home in your heart. Life doesn't end where our heartaches begin. It only ends when we give up on ourselves and the love that we have in our hearts."

"In love, some people think that it's holding on that makes us strong; but sometimes it's letting go. Goodbye may seem a lot more Hello's... and so we have to let go and we should know when to finally end up a chapter in our life to be able to give way for a new one."

Thursday, September 13, 2007

Sex is a popular topic

Whenever I check my site stats courtesy of, I see that most of the hits I get come from Philippines 4 Men website. The next most significant referers would be Google and BasangPanaginip.

It is understandable why I get a lot of hits coming from Philippines 4 Men and BasangPanaginip, the readers of these blogs probably think I'm sexy or I have a lot of topics on sex on my blog. I guess they must be disappointed. Hehehe.

What is kinda remarkable is the hits I get from Google. When I check the search strings, most would be about "pinay porn star" or anything sex related. Churky!

Sex really sells huh? Even a friend of mine asked me to write something about sex again. I want to but I haven't been in the right frame of mind for quite sometime. I have lots of stories to share but I still have to find the right words for my story.

I am thinking of making 2 more series of Sex and Consequence and something about a male sex worker.

O devah! Ideas pa lang exciting na!

I think I need to change my template/skin once again kasi di na bagay ang current theme ko sa mga magiging topics ko. Hehehe.

Tuesday, September 11, 2007

More blogs and a kinky post

I haven't been feeling up to posting anything interesting lately. I have ideas, lots of them but I just do not have the drive to start writing once I'm infront of my pc.

I have an idea about another sex and consequence churky but I'm still feeling low, too low to start it.

After I quit work, I tried my best go visit all the blogs on my list and have added a few more. Some of you may wanna visit these blogs:

My sister's blog
Buge's blog
Jego's blog

Buge and Jego are my friends from way back. My sister is, well, my siser of course. Hehehe.

Jego's latest post is most interesting. I wouldn't be surprised if he would one day show himself to us in tight fitting leather pants and shirt with his big bike. Hehehe.

Monday, September 03, 2007